Having to get over a breakup, losing your partner, is a terrible situation for anyone to be in. Because all we want with our loved ones and family is that feeling of unity. That’s why we want family, you know. It’s natural and it’s beautiful. So when suddenly the opposite happens, it hurts.
So, understand that. But I’d also like to share the truth about how life works, because when you understand that, it gives you comfort.
You see, life – or the Source or the Divine Self in you – has a goal. And that goal is to elevate you to the throne of your perfection, to awaken the Master within you. That’s what life is trying to do.
So how does life do that? It smashes us. Not “us” – it smashes our mind, our ego. It makes us let go. We try to hang on, hang on, but life makes us let go. In other words, life makes us surrender into feeling, “Oh, I don’t have to worry about anything anymore.” Life is trying to make us do that.
So when we understand that, we work with life, not against life. We work with it, like a surfer who takes advantage of the wave to ride in to the shore.